Favourable Conditions

Conditions will not be favourable when we want them to, they definitely will be when we have not even thought about them. The crazy fact is we think about favour only when we are having doubts about ourselves. We think we will not make it, because we are not up to that.

Napoleon said most of the people look for what they want not what they deserve. When we want conditions in our favor, we are actually looking for what we want, do not think whether we deserve that thing.

The bestselling author, Paulo Coelho said that ideal conditions don’t exist. So we can do one thing, either go ahead as it is, accept nothing can be done, circumstances can’t be changed or come out of comfort zone & try to change the conditions without thinking about conditions to favor us.

If we go ahead as it is, we will face consequences that we take for granted, worry about it, regret it & then forget about it as the time passes. But if we strive to make conditions ideal, we will face results, success. We will enjoy it for some time & then as the time passes, we start thinking about what’s next.

People say that winning or losing is the part game, it doesn’t matter, what matters is enjoying the moment, live in the moment. But the crazy fact is win or loss decides the further course of action & for that course of action, favourable conditions plays the vital part.

Are favourable conditions necessary? If yes, we may not come out of comfort zone & discover some hidden treasures in us which we don’t know we have. And if no, we have come out of comfort zone, but we need to sacrifice something. The true fact is winners do not need favourable conditions, they may lose first few battles because of that, but they believe that they have to come out of comfort zone & have to sacrifice something. They discover ways to overcome it & that is what makes them a winner.


Trekking & Life

When we want to do something different from day-to-day routine life, we start finding various things. One of the best thing we come across is trekking. Adventurous, out of the box thing. When we actually go there, we are not sure about ourselves whether we will be able to make it to the top or not.

As we start ascending we find something challenging, tiresome task, but a we move on it teaches us many lessons which can be resembled to the life we live. From start to end, at every step we are learning one thing or another which we have never learned in routine life which will be proved as lethal after we finish trek.

Every fort is not same as other, same way no person is same as other. Every fort we trekked has its own quality & made for some particular purpose. Every person is playing some role in this world. Every fort is meant to do different work & authentic in its own. Same is the case with human, but some try to compare themselves with other & lose authenticity. They get an opportunity to realize that many times, but they refuse to & instead of finding the originality, they try to overcome others.

We do not face same problem while trekking different forts, in a same way no problems we face in various days are not same as other. We can never know what problem we may come across, same way while trekking, anyone can get injured, tired, give up, anything can happen at any point of time.

When body gives up, how get our mind into play can be determined, how to use different strategies when we can’t move a single step ahead, how to adapt according to obstacles we have to overcome, when to move faster or when to slow down, life’s most important lessons are taught.

To make our dreams come true, to taste success, to make a reputation, we need to put a lot of efforts, it takes enormous amount of time, the same way, to reach top of the fort, to ascend, we have to give a lot of time & efforts. But it is more easy to descend, same way, time required to spoil that reputation & success, it takes very less time or a single moment is enough.

The only difference between trekking & life is that we can never predict when we will have to ascend or descend..

The life seems..

WE are astonished when we learn something ironical, facts that are not politically correct.

We are not believed based on truth, but the way we expressed what is on our mind with confidence & conviction, people don’t have time to find the truth. So they accept the truths based on the expressions which proves to be the simplest way to lie. But the crazy fact is we suffer the consequences of the truth, not lie.

When we do not have anything to say, we must keep quiet. We don’t have to say in order to make connection with unknown person because we are supposed to say something. But the crazy fact is connection grows when obvious things are spoken out & it merely grows when spontaneous reaction comes because most of the people are more concerned about approval, not reality.

Do not try to live up to the expectations of others, because expectations never end & there no guarantee that you will be able to live up everytime. And the crazy fact is when you try to, they take you for granted & when you don’t give a damn about them, you are more valued.

I read ‘treat people the way you want to get treated’, but what happens when the other person doesn’t understand it. They don’t care about your feelings when it comes to their. But the crazy fact is we do not accept that the other person will not understand until he will be sailing in the same boat as us.

The crazy fact is life seems too short to when we try to live on our terms, but seems too big when we have to live on others’ terms.